Blog Hop: Let's Talk about Sex, Baby...
First of all let me clear up why exactly I'm tackling this subject. I'm writing about sex for the same reason I write about the struggle between capitalism and socialism,. SImply because I think about it from time to time.
Erika, you will stop laughing. NOW.
I suppose this came about from random conversations on IRC. I go there for my supply of "one-time conversations". If you've watched Fight Club you'll have an idea of what I'm talking about. Random intelligent conversations with a virtual person who may or may not be who they say they are. Good for one use only, although there are always exceptions. Think of it as disposable intellectual stimulation, and you'll have some idea what I'm trying to say.
Sex became the topic of conversation from the sheer amount of personal ads flooding the channel asking for no-t hottie liberated f under 18 years old looking for mature men. The average woman's beef with that is that it's just insulting, and looking at women as if they're meat. That's true, and it's wrong in that sense, but personal ads like that irritate me because of a lack of any style or subtlety. If you're going to try to bone someone you should show some intelligence, especially in a realm where your looks really aren't as much a factor. It boggles the mind how they think any self-respecting woman would deign to talk to them after that kind of an ad. I like sex just as much as the next guy but I'd like to think that if that was me, I'd be just a bit more smooth.
During one random conversation, I was told that it wasn't right to kiss on a first date because "parang slut naman". I was stunned. Women like to talk about double standards in society, and here is one who is propagating such misguided notions. My stance on this is apparently quite liberal, after comparing notes with some guy friends. My belief is that men and women should be able to kiss or sleep with whoever the hell they want to, as long as that person permits them to. If they do sleep with that person, no remorse should be felt by either party (in the best of scenarios), and both should be able to walk the streets of the city without having stones rain down on them. No one ought to be defined as a "slut" or an "easy lay" simply because they slept with someone. Sex is natural. Sex is good. Safely practiced it can even be good exercise. I find it mind-boggling that the same guy who enjoys sleeping with 50 women and bragging about it has the gall to call a woman who does the same thing a slutwhore. Please...practice what you goddamn fucking preach, you man-whore.
The timeless adage "to give is better than to receive" works just as well in sex as it does during christmas. My philosophy is that when you keep on giving, your reward in heaven will be much greater, and I'm sure you know exactly what 'm talking about. If not, you shouldn't be reading this. Go home to mommy. Now where was I ...oh yes, giving. This includes, but is not limited to, going down on a girl. Again Male chauvinism astounds me when I hear friends say that it's normal for a girl to go down on a guy, but the opposite isn't. I just don't think it's fair. In my opinion a guy shouldn't expect a girl to go down on him if he's not ready to do the same for her, and vice versa.
It's all about equality. If you're expecting something then you ought to be willing to work for it. If you like doing something you shouldn't judge someone who does the same. And for chrissake there are better ways to get laid than posting pathetic personal ads on IRC. "no-t"...my god, what were you thinking, man!
Kink's could-not-resist side comment: Yesss... try "(insert name) batang-bata, sariwang-sariwa. Mock me! Mock me!" *lol*
BlogHop: The internet is a gold mine and after much digging, I came across this piece. I highlighted words which I found myself agreeing to the first time I read it. If you want to read more, url addy is:
http://www.livejournal.com/users/endlessthirteen
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