To Kink or Not to Kink

I have been listening to this song for a year before I actually wondered ... "What does the video  look like?"  You have Taylor Swift and Brendon Urie having a lover's spat at the start of it... in FRENCH! Which sounds so damn sexy any which way you listen to it. Then it's a burst of magical colors in rainbow, glitters and cotton candy all over. What's my favorite about this...? Let me think... Something about the lyrics especially these lines...   Me-e-e, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh I'm the only one of me Let me keep you company Eeh-eeh-eeh, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh You're the only one of you Baby, that's the fun of you And I promise that nobody's gonna love you like me-e-e Kink says: Sorry it took me 3 years to update. It's not that I've been busy... I just had to find the WHY I'm blogging. Now, I remember, it was a PASSION Project. Didn't care much about payments or ads. I just enjoyed writing. I did a major re-layout of the blog and ended up with th...

There's this "sexy beast" which the Internet (and myself) have just discovered over the past weeks. According to some articles about him, he is from Turkey and he is a butcher. A butcher with great skills in red meat and some sexy salt sprinkling talent thus the name "Salt Bae." Just last night I made my own version of this "salt-ing" talent on my Instagram because I am one of his million fans there. I also have a lot of "You had be at steak" shoutouts on my Facebook while reposting some of his videos. In a world of "let's be kind to animals" and "let's eat only vegetables and fruits"--- because my yoga world is filled with that--- he is a refreshing welcome to me (and maybe everyone, as well). He's a butcher, he cuts meat, he de-bones them and he makes steak and the way he sprinkles his salt is as James Corden calls it "The Christian Grey of Red Meat!" Yes, he just brought SEXY back! Let men...

Ever since I got myself into the program, LEAP, whenever I seek out love and approval from other people, I ask myself "What part of me am I not loving right now that I am asking for validation from the people outside me?" "How do I love myself more?"  "Am I loving myself enough?" "What is it that I need to give myself? "What is this experience teaching me right now?" And I dig deep looking for the answers. There are times that I feel it is a struggle living with just me. Asking myself sometimes "How committed am I to myself?" No doubt about it I am married to myself. No question about that. These days, I ask myself how do I love myself more and how do I be kinder to myself more each day. More on this later. I just wanted to share this video.

In Japan, broken objects are often repaired with GOLD. The Flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object's history, which adds to its Beauty. 

So, I am posting another one because I would not want the feelings to pass.  After watching a recent Adele concert where the sound system goes bonkers, you can find it here . So I was like going over other YouTube videos and found a version from Bruno Mars. I cried the first time I heard it. Why? "'Cause what if I never love again?"  ( Hahaha!) What if, folks! What if!!! There is also this interview with Bruno Mars about how this song came about with Adele. So, for people who are debating whether Bruno or Adele did it better, now you know, it was a collaborative work. On a more personal note. I was journaling earlier and on my usual note was talking to God. Like, wow, I am halfway through my life and there is no sign of a significant male figure that has potential to be in a romantic relationship anywhere near here! Grabe!!!  There is a higher form of love, I understand that. We use this definition of LOVE for life coaching with LEAP: " Love is s...

Yesterday, this article on Carrie Fisher (famously known as Princess Leia from Star Wars) was wildly reposted on my Newsfeed by the people I know:  Carrie Fisher's last Harrison Ford story isn't romantic, it's tragic.  A few paragraphs from this story goes something like this... In the wake of Carrie Fisher’s  unexpected death at age 60 , her new memoir,  The Princess Diarist ,   is an unexpectedly emotional read. But the emotions aren’t grief and nostalgia so much as alarm and sympathy. Early in the book, she tells a thoroughly appalling story that she presents as a cheery little romp. In London for the filming of 1977’s  Star Wars: A New Hope , Fisher attends George Lucas’ birthday party, where she’s “essentially the only girl” in a room full of hard-drinking crew who are loudly whinging that they’d rather shoot in “a nice remote location… where there’s no bloody shortage of strange but friendly quim.”   At the time, Fisher is 19, and by her...

Okay... so I hang out a lot on Facebook. Hihi! #addiction. Once you start "looking around", you can't stop!  Bad habit, I know. But I have a perfect excuse for it... "I need to be updated with the world and my friends." Anyway... there is this site that most of the friends I have been following on my Newsfeed have this as one of their "go to"sites for love, relationships and other cheezy, sappy stuff.  I liked some of their thoughts. Guilty! And some, just sounds too preachy for me --- Like... "You should do this and that" stuff and this is what you should look like or should do in your 20s and 30s. Which kinda sounds BS to me sometimes because I have passed through those age. Somebody in their 50s in 2017 might actually think me petty and childish. So, let them write their own blog about it! I like me petty and childish. Hehe! Anyway, on to this link.  Maybe Your Journey is not about Finding Love, Maybe It's Bigger Tha...

After much thought about do I go back to this blog or just create a new blog. Do I Kink or Do I NOT Kink ever anymore!! Sooo, you see which thought won... I'm back! It has been what... seven years since I last uploaded a crazy thought. Because, you know, I thought Facebook was going to be enough. Or that Instagram photos is enough. Or that my life would be better if I kept quiet and it would be better for my career to just post on those damn social media sites. Anyway, going through stuff I have written in the past made me realize, it ain't that bad at all. I had some pretty good stuff here! This has been my "playground." Let's get back to it and let the fun begin! 

Kink says: Sexay!!! And now that I know what I want... I will never, never gonna give up!!! Updated on 1/5/2017: The old YouTube I linked was not working anymore so I had to find a new one and here it is!! Tadah!  And I was wondering why did I upload this here in the first place. I think this was one of those days where  there is this music that kept ringing in my ears (we call it LSS in the Philippines or "Last Song Syndrome.") And so I watched her video again on YouTube. And yes, this is "Kink Worthy" music video, indeed! 5/5 stars, beybeh! There has got to be a trivia about this somewhere but I am not in the mood to look for it right now. Pero, all I can say, we had kickass music and music videos back in 1997.

Fine. So people have been dropping by this blog and I have "I like your blog" comments being sent to me. Wee! I haven't been updating the geddem site because I'd rather complain about my life in private. I am experiencing an un-fun side of me for almost this entire year. Life seems to be all about work lately. And work is about follow-ups, deadlines and that mad dash as to whether I am sliding up or sliding down in the learning curve. Life used to be simple. Or, at least, it looked simple to me. I only wanted to do something that I really loved. At night, I would turn on my computer and browse around internet sites or talk on the instant messenger. That was work. I didn't have a lot of money but I get to walk around. Not having much money wasn't reason enough to get me paralyzed and do nothing. I just concentrated on making "work" work. I used to think that I rant a lot around here. How my lovelife stinks. It's a venue for all green stuff I...

News taken from BBC >>> http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/8417963.stm An unholy row has broken out in New Zealand over a church billboard aimed at "challenging stereotypes" about the birth of Jesus Christ. A dejected-looking Joseph lies in bed next to Mary under the caption, "Poor Joseph. God was a hard act to follow". St Matthew-in-the-City Church in Auckland, which erected the billboard, said it had intended to provoke debate. But the Catholic Church, among others, has condemned it as "inappropriate" and "disrespectful". Within hours of its unveiling, the billboard had been defaced with brown paint. The church's vicar, Archdeacon Glynn Cardy, said the aim of the billboard had been to lampoon the literal interpretation of the Christmas conception story. "What we're trying to do is to get people to think more about what Christmas is all about," he told the New Zealand Press Association (NZPA). "Is it about a ...

About the book: In her upbeat new "rules" for finding lasting love, Dr. Georgia Witkin shows that the secret to dating without all the pain is to assume that you are perfectly lovable exactly as you are. When a good date goes bad, the problem is never you. It's him! Some nice quotable quotes from the article: *** The real problem isn't you at all. It isn't your hair, your weight, your job, your hobbies, your accent, your family, or your perfume. It isn't that you're too choosy, cautious, or combative. It isn't that you're too shy or too social, too spoiled or too stingy, too career-minded or too marriage-minded. Somewhere, there is a guy for you . . . actually, many guys. But all you need is one. And he'll fall in love with you as you are. To him you'll be perfectly lovable. *** Dating is hugely simplified when you assume that you're perfect but that no man is ever going to be. When you assume that you're perfect, you realize that 9...

1. "The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat." —Eve, Genesis 3:13 2. "To err is human—but it feels divine." —Mae West 3. "We're so damn conservative all day that when you finally get us in the bedroom, we're absolute animals." —Shannen Doherty, on being Republican 4. "Lust is the sin that gets me excited. Luckily, because I'm married, I also get good jewelry out of it." —Heather Locklear 5. "All I can say is if they show my butt in a movie, it better be a wide shot." —Jennifer Lopez 6. "I don't think I have to introduce myself, unless you don't recognize me with my clothes on." —Madonna 7. "If you want to turn on your boyfriend, get naked and strap on an accordion." —Sheryl Crow 8. "It says, 'Pamela.' And when he gets excited, it says, 'I love Pamela very, very much. She's a wonderful wife, and I enjoy her company to the 10th degree!' " —Pamela Anderson, on the tattoo o...

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming. -- Alan, age 10 No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you're stuck with. -- Kristen, age 10 WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED? Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then. -- Camille, age 10 HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED? You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids. -- Derrick, age 8 WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON? Both don't want any more kids. -- Lori, age 8 WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE? Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough. -- Lynnette, age 8 (isn't she a treasure?) On the first date, they just t...

Photos from Sharon Stone Topless on Magazine Cover at 51 Articles says... "Sharon Stone has posed topless at 51, and she's proud to flaunt it. The actress/humanitarian graces the cover of Paris Match in a high-waisted bondage corset, black underwear, stilettos, arms over her head and topless, as seen below. There are also several shots inside." Full article in French here . Loving those boots.... :)

" Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it. Bitterness paralyzes life ; love empowers it. Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it. Bitterness sickens life; love heals it. Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes.” - Harry Emerson Fosdick