To Kink or Not to Kink

There's this "sexy beast" which the Internet (and myself) have just discovered over the past weeks. According to some articles about him, he is from Turkey and he is a butcher. A butcher with great skills in red meat and some sexy salt sprinkling talent thus the name "Salt Bae." Just last night I made my own version of this "salt-ing" talent on my Instagram because I am one of his million fans there. I also have a lot of "You had be at steak" shoutouts on my Facebook while reposting some of his videos. In a world of "let's be kind to animals" and "let's eat only vegetables and fruits"--- because my yoga world is filled with that--- he is a refreshing welcome to me (and maybe everyone, as well). He's a butcher, he cuts meat, he de-bones them and he makes steak and the way he sprinkles his salt is as James Corden calls it "The Christian Grey of Red Meat!" Yes, he just brought SEXY back! Let men...

Ever since I got myself into the program, LEAP, whenever I seek out love and approval from other people, I ask myself "What part of me am I not loving right now that I am asking for validation from the people outside me?" "How do I love myself more?"  "Am I loving myself enough?" "What is it that I need to give myself? "What is this experience teaching me right now?" And I dig deep looking for the answers. There are times that I feel it is a struggle living with just me. Asking myself sometimes "How committed am I to myself?" No doubt about it I am married to myself. No question about that. These days, I ask myself how do I love myself more and how do I be kinder to myself more each day. More on this later. I just wanted to share this video.

In Japan, broken objects are often repaired with GOLD. The Flaw is seen as a unique piece of the object's history, which adds to its Beauty. 

So, I am posting another one because I would not want the feelings to pass.  After watching a recent Adele concert where the sound system goes bonkers, you can find it here . So I was like going over other YouTube videos and found a version from Bruno Mars. I cried the first time I heard it. Why? "'Cause what if I never love again?"  ( Hahaha!) What if, folks! What if!!! There is also this interview with Bruno Mars about how this song came about with Adele. So, for people who are debating whether Bruno or Adele did it better, now you know, it was a collaborative work. On a more personal note. I was journaling earlier and on my usual note was talking to God. Like, wow, I am halfway through my life and there is no sign of a significant male figure that has potential to be in a romantic relationship anywhere near here! Grabe!!!  There is a higher form of love, I understand that. We use this definition of LOVE for life coaching with LEAP: " Love is s...

Yesterday, this article on Carrie Fisher (famously known as Princess Leia from Star Wars) was wildly reposted on my Newsfeed by the people I know:  Carrie Fisher's last Harrison Ford story isn't romantic, it's tragic.  A few paragraphs from this story goes something like this... In the wake of Carrie Fisher’s  unexpected death at age 60 , her new memoir,  The Princess Diarist ,   is an unexpectedly emotional read. But the emotions aren’t grief and nostalgia so much as alarm and sympathy. Early in the book, she tells a thoroughly appalling story that she presents as a cheery little romp. In London for the filming of 1977’s  Star Wars: A New Hope , Fisher attends George Lucas’ birthday party, where she’s “essentially the only girl” in a room full of hard-drinking crew who are loudly whinging that they’d rather shoot in “a nice remote location… where there’s no bloody shortage of strange but friendly quim.”   At the time, Fisher is 19, and by her...

Okay... so I hang out a lot on Facebook. Hihi! #addiction. Once you start "looking around", you can't stop!  Bad habit, I know. But I have a perfect excuse for it... "I need to be updated with the world and my friends." Anyway... there is this site that most of the friends I have been following on my Newsfeed have this as one of their "go to"sites for love, relationships and other cheezy, sappy stuff.  I liked some of their thoughts. Guilty! And some, just sounds too preachy for me --- Like... "You should do this and that" stuff and this is what you should look like or should do in your 20s and 30s. Which kinda sounds BS to me sometimes because I have passed through those age. Somebody in their 50s in 2017 might actually think me petty and childish. So, let them write their own blog about it! I like me petty and childish. Hehe! Anyway, on to this link.  Maybe Your Journey is not about Finding Love, Maybe It's Bigger Tha...