To Kink or Not to Kink

Kink says: I cannot remember if I posted this here. I did put it on my now defunct myspace.com profile and on my friendster blog---haven't updated those in months. Lame excuse for a blog site if you ask me. Super sweet friend sent me this link long time ago. I think it is flattering to have someone tell you "this article reminded me of you". That's why it is being re-posted here. Tough Chicks are the coolest type of female around, except maybe for Tough Rich Chicks. But those are rare. All my life I've sought out Tough Chicks for dating and hanging-out-with purposes, and it's always been extremely rewarding. I always just hated frilly, frowsy, helpless Gurly-Gurls. Southern Belles are the absolute worst type of Gurly-Gurl, by the way, and are the archetype by which the genre is defined. Avoid them like death; they're dysfunctional, whiny, clingy, deceitful, unintelligent but guileful, and generally useless. Please note also that Tough Chicks are not in an...

Kink says: May not need this "now" so I'm saving it for later. Putting articles in storage. Let's face it: It's hard to be wildly romantic once you have kids. It's a question of simple math: only so many hours in the day, only two of you, only two hours left after their bedtime and before yours and only one reliable sitter (if you're lucky). When you think of it that way, it's amazing you manage to stay as lovey-dovey as you do. But it is possible to make your marriage as sweet and sexy as a Meg Ryan movie and to grow even closer during those peak parenthood years, says Cherie Carter-Scott, Ph.D., author of If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules. Here's how to keep your romance rockin' every step of the way. *Some names have been changed. Romance Roadblock #1: A new baby means wondering if you'll ever have a love life again. You're sleep deprived and too busy even to go to the bathroom: Is it any wonder that romance takes a bit of a no...