To Kink or Not to Kink

Kink says: Down here in the Philippines, it's part of the culture to have hearsays. Gossips are an everyday staple. People read between the lines. Action speaks louder than words. Every gesture and every move 'might' actually mean something. I think this is also common practice with the womenfolk of the world (or maybe in some cultures?). Overanalyzing. My years of working for an IT company filled with men made a different mark on me. Men are really simple creatures, to be honest. Take everything at face value. There's nothing behind those words. They respond well with 'bite-size'--- deploy tasks one at a time, put numbers on your issues and don't let it go beyond no.5. I don't know how many women actually made this most common mistake with men. Been there, done that, will I be doing it again? Hehehe I can't say I'm an expert, only that I do undersand them better now. And in my ripe years, I can say I've wisened. Men now wonder why I stand my...